Preheat the air fryer to 400°F (200°C).
Pat the wings dry with paper towels. In a large bowl, toss the wings with salt, pepper, red pepper flakes, oregano, and garlic powder. Place the wings in a single layer in the air fryer basket, cooking in batches if needed.
Air fry for 25-30 minutes, flipping halfway through, until golden and crispy.
In a large bowl, combine melted butter, minced garlic, red pepper flakes, parmesan, lemon zest, parsley, and salt. Toss the cooked wings in the the garlic-parmesan sauce.
Finish with extra parmesan and parsley, if desired. Serve immediately.